Happiness can not be bought. Being happy is something that I urge everyone to do always.
Although some things will always arise to make you sad, do your best to bounce back.
Life is filled with ups and downs. Life can make you rethink if you really want to live or not.
I urge you to be happy for life. Life is short so make it count. Life can try to knock you down, but do your best to get back right up.
They say when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.
Being patient is a virtue. It is always worth the wait. Read my article HERE
I was talking to my mother the other day and she said ‘never run away from the life lessons you have to learn in other for you to get to the next level.
This got me thinking. When I started writing this blogpost, I realized that a lot of people who are married are unhappy, and you will see a lot of people who are single are very happy. Why is this so? I realized that a lot of people do not work on themselves while they are single. When they get married, they bring their toxicity from their old relationships, and what have you to ruin their present marriage.
Being happy is a choice, and you have to make that decision if you want to be happy or not. With that being said, you must not use your preset relationship status to determine your happiness or not.
If you are married, single, divorced, separated, do not be overly overwhelmed with sadness. Spend your time to actually learn the lesson that you should be learning irrespective of your relationship status.
HOW TO BE SINGLE AND HAPPY
Being happy is a choice. You make that choice. You decide if you want to be happy or not. No one gets to detect that for you. Happiness is one of the things you need in life. You may lose everything, but if you have happiness, then you win.
ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE SINGLE:
Acceptance is very important. If you do not accept that you are single, you can not even work on yourself. You can not be better version of yourself. I always say that you need to know who you are, and who you are about. Accept that being single is a time for you to carry out some things you have always wanted.
2. SPEND TIME WITH GOD IN PRAYER:
This is a time to spend time with God. When you do spend time with God, you will know who you truly are. I always say that you are here on earth for reason. You are here on earth to create impact. You are here on earth to create an impact. You are here on earth to create an impact. You are not here by accident. You are existing to be the best that you can ever be. I always say that, there is enough room, and enough space for you and I to shine in this world. You are a light. Do not dim your light.
Spend this time to pray, study your bible and pray to God. God will give you direction. He will expose to you what you ought to be doing in life.
Even the bible says that you are the technology of God. Who can know the use of something more than its creator? God is your creator. He knows you better and created you for a reason.
3. LOVE YOURSELF:
No one can love you like you. If you do not love yourself, then you are not living your best life.
A lot of people have been hurt or been involved in a toxic relationship. The circumstances you go via life may cause you to have a low self-esteem. Like I always say, do not let your background put your back on the ground.
Love yourself because you will never find anyone like yourself. You are amazing and there will never be anyone like you. Love yourself because when you love yourself, you can easily pour out love to others and your world.
4. TAKE YOURSELF ON AN AMAZING DATE:
You are right to go on dates. You do not need to go on a date only with a man. Take yourself on a date. Dress expensive, and drive to a classy place. You may even take an uber there. Have fun and make merry. Go to the park. Go to the movies. Have a walk.
Do things that make you so happy. You deserve that and no one can and should take that from you.
5. STOP NEGATIVITY AROUND YOU:
I have a post that emphasizes on cutting toxic people off. You can read it HERE.
Do not have any toxic people around you. Cutting toxic people off is very important, and it will help you focus on your vision.
Let your vision stand the test of time.
Shun all forms of toxicity.
You can read an article how to cut off negative people HERE.
When you do that, you will have enough space to be you. You will have time to be creative. You will have time to create an impact. I have realized that, negativity makes you depressed.
Life is good, and it needs to be enjoyed.
Until you enjoy your singleness, you can not even work on yourself.
They say learning never ends. If you are single, it is time to learn a craft, or do something that actually makes you happy.
I wrote an article HERE about the things you should be doing as a single.
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Until next time,
Let me know what a single can do to be happy.
Lots of Love;